Can you suggest ways to see someone’s Facebook messages? My sister’s been acting super secretive lately, and I’m worried she’s talking to some sketchy people online. Last week, she mentioned meeting someone from FB, and now she’s sneaking out at night. I just wanna make sure she’s safe without her knowing I’m checking. Any tips or tools you’d recommend?

I’ve been in almost the same boat with my younger brother last year—he got mixed up with some online “friends” from FB who turned out to be way older and shady. He started lying, staying out late, the whole deal. We were freaked. I ended up stumbling across this page: how to see someones facebook messages  and it gave us a way to quietly check things before stepping in. Definitely worth reading if you're trying to keep her safe without going full spy mode.